Many people are able to sleep within 10 to 15 minutes upon lying on the bed or do you often spend too much time waiting for the sleep to come? People who are suffering from insomnia would understand. Apart from the sleep disorder, this could be a result of various things that prevent you from falling asleep. Many people experience this type of problem each and every night. More often than not, stress, anxieties or depression in our lives is what stops us from feeling at peace. As we get into bed, many think about the problems they have experienced over the day or the things that need to be carried out the next day.
Meditation seems to be a good way to relax the body and the mind. In general, the more relax you are the easier it will be for you to fall asleep. There are many ways of meditation. Among the popular methods without involving religion are:
Breath Watching: Focusing on the air going in and out of your nose;
Visualisation: Listening to tapes that describe beautiful places such as being on a beach for example;
Mantra Meditation: This is a word or phrase you recite in your head repeated over and over for a period of time;
Empty Mind Meditation: Letting the mind go silent on its own and in "full-lotus" position.
These are techniques that make you feel at ease. You may find that meditating ten to fifteen minutes before going to sleep will help you fall asleep quickly.
The important objective is to distract yourself from your endless thoughts. You just need to test out what works best for you or you may try devising your own method.
Mine does two things in one. First of course to fall asleep with ease no matter what you have in mind and secondly to improve the memory by reciting them regularly and in a way exercising the memory cells (mine and not any reference to any biology text).
My method is to "recite the 800 digits that i made up" while lying on the bed to sleep. Until now, i am able to fall into a dreamless slumber quickly way before i finish reciting the numbers. I believe that reciting this number in your head, is also a form of meditation that can distract you from stress, worries or any important task that need to be done the next day.
Actually i use this tactic to fall asleep by accident. Earlier in an incident when i left behind the hand-phone in the office, i found myself helpless when trying to contact the family urgently because i could not recall any contact numbers. I am quite sure most of us would rely on the handphone's memory card to make contact due to convenience. This incident makes me resolve in memorising them. Then later i realised that by reciting the handphone numbers and others during sleeping time, i fall asleep easily.
A word of this 800-digit (or less) number. These are not randomised numbers but is comprised of many individual numbers that may be useful to memorise and remember for example serial numbers of bank accounts, credit cards, passport, etc.
A technique to remember a number with many digits like in a bank account is to link the numbers to associate with some events like those of the mind-mapping techniques.
For example, how do i remember a bank card serial number:
(the number is similar but not identical)
3018 - 4420 - 1308 - 8880
Break them up into smaller groups (but not the sequence) if necessary.
For example, the above number is rearrange into different groups to make it easier to memorise:
30-18 44-20 13-08 88-80
Then, make up a story like
when i was 30 years old, i felt like i am 18
when i was 44, i felt like 20
when i was 13, i felt like 8
when i turn 88, i will feel like i am 80
Another example, a credit number (similar number)
4794 4600 0012 1161
break the numbers up to form a story like
47-94-46 0000 121-161
47: imagine or relate it to a brother's or a good friend's birth year
94: 2 times 47 = 94
46: 47 less one = 46
the last two blocks will be quite easy to remember
00-00
121-161
read them as in a poem in rhythm.
Take a bit of time to make a story for others too.
The next thing is to have a mental guide to remember them in sequence not unlike the naming of the planets in sequence in our Solar System, for example, by referring them as "My Very Educated Mother Sat Upon Nine Pineapples" with M stands for Mercury, V for Venus, blah-blah, N for Neptune and P for Pluto.
In my case, i used this mnemonic, BP-CAT-TIE to help me to recite the sequences of individual numbers. For example:
B for Bank-related accounts such as savings, current, bank card and credit cards; and also B for Birth Cert;
P for Passport and Phone (fixed and mobile); and the phone's unique 15 digit serial number;
C for car registration numbers (past and current);
A for Astro account and its card serial number;
T for Tax account number;
T for Trading account (stock);
I for ID number;
E for EPF number.
Once you are familiar with them, you may extend to include family members too. In a way, i believe that remembering the number and reciting them nightly will help to improve one's memory , and this is liken to sort of exercising the memory cells! Sometimes when filling up a form which require details of personal particulars, and knowing them by heart is very useful and convenient too. Another example is when someone asks for your close relative's handphone number, you can recite them straight away without referring it to the phone's memory.
Whatever method you choose make sure that it is something tailored to your needs and helping you to overcome any problems whether to improve your memory or be able to sleep with ease.
Sleep well ;-)